This weekend no matter how you are feeling, hug your granny if you still have her, phone your friend or cousin that you haven't spoken to in a long time, or take your kids for ice cream and forget about the mess. In other words, create a day that says 'I love you.' Create a day that will live in their memory and make them smile. Create a day that reminds you how good it is to be alive, to love and be loved. No matter how painful your life was or is, take a day off from that pain and be loving. Let us know how you get on in the comments below.