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'I will not be part of that' Brian D'Arcy

5/1/2012

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On April 30, 2012, a group of Irish men and women, lay people and religious, held a silent demonstration outside the Papal Nunciature in Dublin. They wore gags over their mouths to protest at the censorship that has been brought to bear by the Vatican against five priests Brian D'Arcy,  Tony Flannery, Gerard Moloney, Seán Fagan and  Owen O’Sullivan. What awful crime did they commit? They simply said aloud and in public what many Catholics believe and feel. 

After Vatican Two, as children, we were taught that 'church' means family of believers. Well from a therapeutic perspective, this 'family' is in big trouble. The father (Pope Benedict) is punishing his most loyal sons, for daring to ask  questions! Furthermore, if they 'persist in disobedience' they are faced with the real possibility of having their priestly role stripped from them. In family terms, they are under threat of being disinherited and shunned.

I have worked with adults who had tyrannical fathers for many years. There are only a few possibilities. The sons cave in to the tyrant and are broken for the rest of their lives. The sons leave before they are pushed out by the tyrant. The sons are expelled by the tyrant. All the children of the family unite against the father. (This is rare.) 

Often the tyrannical father sees no harm in what he has done. He believes he is doing what is right and the fault lies only with the disobedient children. But there is no love in what the father is doing. He is the father who as he beats his children tells them 'I do this only because I love you.'

As I listened to Brian D'Arcy on radio on Saturday, I was once again impressed by the love and care for his people he demonstrates all through his life. His honest responses to the pain caused by the Catholic Hierarchy can only be respected. 
"I will not stop addressing this issue, however. As someone who was abused, it would be wrong for me as person and as a priest to stay silent,'' he said. "Silence on child abuse leads to more child abuse and I will not be a part of that." 
As quoted by Greg Harkin, Irish Independent Newspaper April 30th 2012

You are welcome to leave your comments below. 
6 Comments
Mairead link
5/1/2012 12:07:40 pm

"Silence on child abuse leads to more child abuse and I will not be a part of that." This is a sentiment I whole heartedly agree with. Thank you Martine for drawing attention to this important issue, and for your insightful analogy.

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Martine Brennan link
5/1/2012 05:08:21 pm

I despair over the example the Church family provides for 'ordinary' families Mairead. Thank you for taking the time to comment.

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Liam link
5/1/2012 04:45:40 pm

Martine

Thanks for sharing. One can only applaud Brian D'Arcy for his efforts.
Thankfully there are people like him who are strong enough to face the consequences for doing the right thing.

Regards,
Liam

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Martine Brennan link
5/1/2012 05:10:12 pm

It is sad that he not only fights against child abuse but also against those who should be helping him. Thank you for your comment Liam.

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Tomás Ó Cárthaigh link
5/2/2012 01:37:05 pm

Great article... we as Catholics DO resist and resent Romes interference - to Cesear whats his and ditto to God...

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Martine Brennan link
5/4/2012 01:34:00 pm

I am glad you spoke your mind Tomas...everyone has that right in spite of what some might say!

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